Comments on: A Lesson From Spiderman http://jacksongtickle.com/2006/02/21/a-lesson-from-spiderman/ Sponsored by the Black hand side, Fantasia's English teacher and Frederick Douglass' hairstylist Mon, 08 Sep 2008 13:58:20 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.1 By: Jen Gotdammit http://jacksongtickle.com/2006/02/21/a-lesson-from-spiderman/#comment-1990 Jen Gotdammit Fri, 24 Feb 2006 20:30:46 +0000 http://jacksongtickle.com/2006/02/21/a-lesson-from-spiderman/#comment-1990 Dude, this is so not short. I had to scroll twice, and my resolution is 1280x1024. *sigh* Going back up to try and wade (read: skim) through it. Dude, this is so not short. I had to scroll twice, and my resolution is 1280×1024.

*sigh* Going back up to try and wade (read: skim) through it.

]]> By: Panama http://jacksongtickle.com/2006/02/21/a-lesson-from-spiderman/#comment-1989 Panama Wed, 22 Feb 2006 20:56:50 +0000 http://jacksongtickle.com/2006/02/21/a-lesson-from-spiderman/#comment-1989 Well...Ms. Diva...I'd rather be the one doing the fucking. But I'd like to think that after I'm done, I'd at least give them a kiss on the cheek. Anything less...is uncivilized. Well…Ms. Diva…I’d rather be the one doing the fucking. But I’d like to think that after I’m done, I’d at least give them a kiss on the cheek.

Anything less…is uncivilized.

]]> By: Bulletproof Diva http://jacksongtickle.com/2006/02/21/a-lesson-from-spiderman/#comment-1988 Bulletproof Diva Wed, 22 Feb 2006 20:47:01 +0000 http://jacksongtickle.com/2006/02/21/a-lesson-from-spiderman/#comment-1988 In this world, there are 2 kinds of people..he one being f*cked or the one doing the fu*king, which one would you rather be? I can't remember where that quote came from, a movie, book, or something? Anyway..what do you think about that quote Panama? In this world, there are 2 kinds of people..he one being f*cked or the one doing the fu*king, which one would you rather be?

I can’t remember where that quote came from, a movie, book, or something? Anyway..what do you think about that quote Panama?

]]> By: Panama http://jacksongtickle.com/2006/02/21/a-lesson-from-spiderman/#comment-1987 Panama Wed, 22 Feb 2006 19:25:51 +0000 http://jacksongtickle.com/2006/02/21/a-lesson-from-spiderman/#comment-1987 Yeah...see this is why I'm torn. There is an argument to be made on both sides. If you see that the dude/dudette you're messing with is ready to marry you, and you don't even want them to spend the night yet, why not cut them off? It seems like the only right thing to do. But I really can't fault anybody for taking advantage of a situation...I know that's jacked up, but I mean...if youre only real goal in life is to look out for #1, then you do what's in your own best interest. And you can't screw somebody unless they bend over right? Just dificult to gauge all around...we'd all like to think we'd do the "right" thing, but for real...self-interest is a bitch in sheeps clothing. Yeah…see this is why I’m torn. There is an argument to be made on both sides. If you see that the dude/dudette you’re messing with is ready to marry you, and you don’t even want them to spend the night yet, why not cut them off? It seems like the only right thing to do. But I really can’t fault anybody for taking advantage of a situation…I know that’s jacked up, but I mean…if youre only real goal in life is to look out for #1, then you do what’s in your own best interest. And you can’t screw somebody unless they bend over right?

Just dificult to gauge all around…we’d all like to think we’d do the “right” thing, but for real…self-interest is a bitch in sheeps clothing.

]]> By: Melony http://jacksongtickle.com/2006/02/21/a-lesson-from-spiderman/#comment-1986 Melony Wed, 22 Feb 2006 19:08:05 +0000 http://jacksongtickle.com/2006/02/21/a-lesson-from-spiderman/#comment-1986 I do believe that the drug dealer is responsible for the addict. The addict is under a love spell and is totally high. They aren't really in any condition to be reasonable. After all how reasonable is it to allow yourself to be used. On the same token, we are reponsible for our own actions as well. One thing about feelings, they do change, be it from like to dislike or hate to in love. You feel different everyday. I am one who has never had a man "grow on me". I either like you or I don't. I wouldn't play with anyones feelings. I wouldn't accept gifts and put out, if I know we aren't on the same page. Ive been with some one who has pretended to want me and spent all kinds of time and in the end I was nearly a grand in the whole and in a corner crying like a lost child. Who was responsible for that shit!?!?!? Me?....Somewhat, I saw some signs, but I let him talk me out of them. Him? Hell yea! That fool won! In conclusion, the party who is "winning" is most responsible, because they are at an advantage, because they have the most power. The strong should protect the weak. God's greatest commandments are "Love Him and others as we love ourselves!" I do believe that the drug dealer is responsible for the addict. The addict is under a love spell and is totally high. They aren’t really in any condition to be reasonable. After all how reasonable is it to allow yourself to be used. On the same token, we are reponsible for our own actions as well. One thing about feelings, they do change, be it from like to dislike or hate to in love. You feel different everyday. I am one who has never had a man “grow on me”. I either like you or I don’t. I wouldn’t play with anyones feelings. I wouldn’t accept gifts and put out, if I know we aren’t on the same page. Ive been with some one who has pretended to want me and spent all kinds of time and in the end I was nearly a grand in the whole and in a corner crying like a lost child. Who was responsible for that shit!?!?!? Me?….Somewhat, I saw some signs, but I let him talk me out of them. Him? Hell yea! That fool won! In conclusion, the party who is “winning” is most responsible, because they are at an advantage, because they have the most power. The strong should protect the weak. God’s greatest commandments are “Love Him and others as we love ourselves!”

]]> By: Katalina Jenkins http://jacksongtickle.com/2006/02/21/a-lesson-from-spiderman/#comment-1985 Katalina Jenkins Wed, 22 Feb 2006 10:20:06 +0000 http://jacksongtickle.com/2006/02/21/a-lesson-from-spiderman/#comment-1985 I'm very familiar with this, as one of my friends is in this situation where this guy she KNOWS she doesn't want to be with is madly in love with her and she knows she don't like him like that. And yet, she still lets him come spend the night (no sex involved, just sleeping), and take her out on dates. They're friends. But the more I hear about the situation, the more I wonder is she being shady by keeping him around? Or is it dude's fault for putting himself so out there?? Is it his fault for CONTINUING to put himself out there with no signs of reciprocity? After all, he should protect his own heart. I’m very familiar with this, as one of my friends is in this situation where this guy she KNOWS she doesn’t want to be with is madly in love with her and she knows she don’t like him like that. And yet, she still lets him come spend the night (no sex involved, just sleeping), and take her out on dates. They’re friends. But the more I hear about the situation, the more I wonder is she being shady by keeping him around? Or is it dude’s fault for putting himself so out there?? Is it his fault for CONTINUING to put himself out there with no signs of reciprocity? After all, he should protect his own heart.

]]> By: The After Party Hostess http://jacksongtickle.com/2006/02/21/a-lesson-from-spiderman/#comment-1984 The After Party Hostess Wed, 22 Feb 2006 05:47:01 +0000 http://jacksongtickle.com/2006/02/21/a-lesson-from-spiderman/#comment-1984 Yes. You completely do have a responsibility...To YOUR-DAMNED-SELF to do the right thing. The way I think of it, I always, usually, sometimes, cut a person off if I see it headed down that road simply because (SELFISH ALERT) I don't wanna feel bad about taking-taking-taking and not giving two shyts. You like how even in seeming to do the right thing, it's still done for selfish reasons? Humans are selfish indeed! I am human. You do the math. Yes. You completely do have a responsibility…To YOUR-DAMNED-SELF to do the right thing. The way I think of it, I always, usually, sometimes, cut a person off if I see it headed down that road simply because (SELFISH ALERT) I don’t wanna feel bad about taking-taking-taking and not giving two shyts. You like how even in seeming to do the right thing, it’s still done for selfish reasons? Humans are selfish indeed! I am human. You do the math.

]]> By: meleka http://jacksongtickle.com/2006/02/21/a-lesson-from-spiderman/#comment-1983 meleka Wed, 22 Feb 2006 05:44:16 +0000 http://jacksongtickle.com/2006/02/21/a-lesson-from-spiderman/#comment-1983 I don't know the answer(s) to the question(s) you posed. All I know is that this statement "Though they do things for you to make you feel good with the best of intentions, they want something from you. And something that you more than likely do not want to give them. Yet you keep them around because they make you feel special. Is that fair?" is stepping all over my nine west boots. I'm in a situation where I think i'm in love with my best friend. I've confronted him about my feelings, but he said he doesn't want to explore that possibility--right now. So now I'm stuck dealing with my feelings and still being a good friend. Yes, sometimes I feel maybe the things that I do may seem as some sort of ploy to "convince" him that we should be together. I don't feel thats what i'm doing. Maybe i'm doing it subconsciously? All I know is that when he's happy, I'm happy. Sorry for "posting" in your comments, I actually have written on this topic before. Some might think i'm a fool, but I can't deny what I feel. I don’t know the answer(s) to the question(s) you posed. All I know is that this statement “Though they do things for you to make you feel good with the best of intentions, they want something from you. And something that you more than likely do not want to give them. Yet you keep them around because they make you feel special. Is that fair?” is stepping all over my nine west boots.

I’m in a situation where I think i’m in love with my best friend. I’ve confronted him about my feelings, but he said he doesn’t want to explore that possibility–right now. So now I’m stuck dealing with my feelings and still being a good friend. Yes, sometimes I feel maybe the things that I do may seem as some sort of ploy to “convince” him that we should be together. I don’t feel thats what i’m doing. Maybe i’m doing it subconsciously? All I know is that when he’s happy, I’m happy.

Sorry for “posting” in your comments, I actually have written on this topic before. Some might think i’m a fool, but I can’t deny what I feel.

]]> By: mitch http://jacksongtickle.com/2006/02/21/a-lesson-from-spiderman/#comment-1982 mitch Tue, 21 Feb 2006 23:10:45 +0000 http://jacksongtickle.com/2006/02/21/a-lesson-from-spiderman/#comment-1982 what was this post about again???? what was this post about again????

]]> By: Honest http://jacksongtickle.com/2006/02/21/a-lesson-from-spiderman/#comment-1981 Honest Tue, 21 Feb 2006 21:23:45 +0000 http://jacksongtickle.com/2006/02/21/a-lesson-from-spiderman/#comment-1981 1) People need to be honest with themselves and with others 2) As adults we need to be responsible for our own actions BUT 3) If you can see a clear inbalance in a relationship and you know that nothing will tip the scales for you to get more involved with that person human decency dictates that you should be honest with the other person and drop the relationship completely if you see they're not handling it well. (damm run on sentence). 1) People need to be honest with themselves and with others
2) As adults we need to be responsible for our own actions
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3) If you can see a clear inbalance in a relationship and you know that nothing will tip the scales for you to get more involved with that person human decency dictates that you should be honest with the other person and drop the relationship completely if you see they’re not handling it well. (damm run on sentence).

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